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UPDATE

 

We decide throughout this process what we want our lives to include and what kind of legacy we want to leave behind, and then we are challenged to act on this story—to become who we say we are.  (Baldwin, 2005)

Taking pen to paper has been a journey of misspelled words, uneven margins, thoughts and rethought of how I wanted my book or my story to be told.  And what I’ve discovered is while giving voice to the most inner parts of myself; there amongst the letters and margins was a process. So,(like life)  I tried and tried again to make crooked lines straight and correct misspelled letters and while changing the image of the cover of the book (so you the reader will be intrigued enough to read my words) I discovered that the process and the content of the book was even more important than an image.  And while asking the question; “what kind of legacy do we want to leave behind?”
 
My answer, the kind that had challenged me to act (which was the process) and the kind that fearlessly challenged me to articulate how it all came to be (which became the product).  On the shore of my life came the waves upon waves of life experiences.  Sometimes the thoughts were deep as the ocean floors that came like the opening and closing of a revolving door. 
 
While the waves brushed along the long salty shore it brought with it treasures of the ocean of shells, and particles of shining sand and wrapped up in the motion, a story could be told.  Although my Great grandfather’s picture is still in the book You Should’ve Been I have changed the cover to reflect how while writing the book, I remembered that the ocean and all of it’s happening better reflects my life experiences.    The book is available on Amazon.com under the same title but look for a different picture.

Book Review: You Should've Been There

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Lela Thaxton Schlitz

Importance of Storytelling in African American Families

​"You Should've Been There" is the autobiography of Julita M. Braithwaite, a young woman growing up in urban Los Angeles. She is the oldest of eight children whose devoted mother, grandmother and aunties instill her with love, devotion and moral values to carry her through periods of hope and adversity. The importance of storytelling in their family life is central. There are stories Julita told to her younger siblings, stories of family history told by her grandmother and stories from her imagination about her African American ancestors' personal histories that cannot be known.

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